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For women 40+

Fresh, comfortable, close again.

After 40, your intimate flora changes. Our probiotic and saffron gummies support it from the inside, so odor, dryness and discomfort stop taking up space in your head.*

Find your ritual What changes after 40 ↓
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  • Hormone-free
  • Discreet packaging

Sound familiar?

You’re not imagining it. And you’re not alone.

  • Odor

    You check yourself before every meeting, every date.

  • Dryness

    Intimacy started to feel uncomfortable, so you avoid it.

  • Bladder

    You always know exactly where the bathroom is.

  • Closeness

    You miss feeling at ease in your body, and with your partner.

It’s not in your head. It’s your flora. Here’s what happens ↓

GR-1RC-14
OdorDrynessBladder worriesDiscomfort

What changes after 4001/11

Inside, a tiny garden.

Estrogen feeds it.

They keep it acidic.

Then, after 40…

The garden goes hungry.

The pH creeps up.

Other bacteria move in.

And you feel it.

GR-1 + RC-14 arrive.

Balance, back.

For dryness: saffron.

Good bacteria called lactobacilli keep your intimate flora in balance.

Estrogen keeps glycogen in the vaginal lining: the sugar your lactobacilli live on.

Lactobacilli turn that sugar into lactic acid. A low pH, around 4, keeps unwanted bacteria out.

Through perimenopause and menopause, estrogen levels fall.

Less glycogen in the lining. Fewer lactobacilli can live there.

Less lactic acid, so the pH drifts above 5. The acidic shield gets weaker.

Without that shield, unwanted bacteria find room to grow.

Odor, dryness, a bladder that’s always on your mind. It’s not in your head. It’s your flora.

Two strains studied in women. Taken by mouth, they have been found in the vaginal flora of women who take them.*

In a study, women taking them were nearly 3x as likely to have a lactobacilli-dominant flora after 60 days.*

In a small study in women, 30 mg a day improved natural lubrication and comfort.* Saffron is not a hormone.

Estrogen
pH 4.0acidicneutral
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Simplified illustration. *See studies below.

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What bothers you most?

Most completeThe Ritual Duo

For all of it, morning & night

The Ritual Duo

Probiotic in the morning, gummies at night

4.8 (517 reviews)
  • Fresh, balanced flora by day*
  • Moisture & comfort by night*
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Don’t just take our word for it.

Freshness

Erika

“The biggest difference for me is how much less I think about odor. I can go from a full day at work to dinner without that familiar worry in the back of my mind. Feeling fresh has made me feel more at ease.”

Balance

Julietta

“My body has felt less predictable lately, so I appreciate finding something that seems to help me feel more settled. It’s been a simple addition to my routine, and I feel more comfortable day to day.”

Everyday comfort

Jane

“I notice the difference during ordinary things: sitting through a meeting, going for a walk, getting dressed. I’m less distracted by discomfort, which is exactly what I was hoping for.”

Intimacy

Sophie

“I feel more comfortable during intimacy, and that has helped me relax. I’m spending less time worrying about my body and more time enjoying being close to someone.”

Easy to take

Vanessa

“Finally, a supplement I don’t dread taking. These capsules are easy for me to swallow and don’t leave an unpleasant aftertaste. That small detail has made it much easier to stay consistent.”

A routine that sticks

Kylie

“I keep the bottle beside my usual morning essentials, so taking it fits into something I already do. I appreciate having a little moment of care for myself that doesn’t become another task to manage.”

Reviews from early testers, who received softr days for free. First names only. Individual experiences vary. Photos are product imagery, not the reviewers.

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The science

Studied in women. Sources on the page.

Intimate Probiotic

Nearly 3x more women with a balanced flora

Lactobacilli-dominant flora at day 60

37%
13%
GR-1 + RC-14 dailyPlacebo

Reid G. et al., FEMS Immunol Med Microbiol, 2003. 64 women, randomized and placebo-controlled. A study of the two strains, not of the softr days formula. Read the study

Intimate Gummies

30 mg of saffron, the dose studied in women

  • Lubricationimproved vs placebo*
  • Arousalimproved vs placebo*
  • Comfortless pain during sex*

Kashani L. et al., Hum Psychopharmacol, 2013. 4-week randomized trial in women taking antidepressants. A small trial; more research is needed. Not a study of the softr days formula.

What to expect

Honest timelines. No overnight promises.

  1. Day 1

    Your first dose

    A capsule with breakfast, two gummies after dinner. That’s the whole routine.

  2. Day 30

    The habit sticks

    Most of the work is quiet at first. Keep the jars where you’ll see them.

  3. Day 60

    Your flora adjusts

    The stretch most studies of GR-1 and RC-14 cover. Keep going.

  4. Day 90

    Judge for yourself

    The fair time to decide. Our guarantee covers your first order for 90 days.

  5. Day 180+

    Part of your days

    It supports you while you take it. Skip a delivery whenever you have extra.

Made for women 40+

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Our promise

Give it 90 days. Completely risk-free.

Your flora takes time to shift, so we give you the time. If softr days isn’t for you, tell us within 90 days of your first order and we refund it in full. No forms, no fuss.

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Questions

Your questions, answered.

Which one should I choose?

Odor, pH or bladder worries: the Intimate Probiotic. Dryness, low desire or discomfort during sex: the Intimate Gummies with Saffron. A bit of both: The Ritual Duo, one in the morning and one at night.

How does a capsule I swallow reach my vaginal flora?

In studies, women who took GR-1 and RC-14 by mouth had these strains detected in their vaginal flora afterwards. Researchers believe the strains travel through the gut and reach the vaginal area from nearby.*

What does saffron do?

In a small 4-week study in women, 30 mg of saffron a day improved lubrication, arousal and comfort compared with placebo.* Saffron is a spice, not a hormone.

How long until I notice something?

Give the probiotic 8 to 12 weeks: that is the length of most studies, and the time a flora needs. The saffron study lasted 4 weeks. It is also why our guarantee runs for 90 days.

Do they contain hormones?

No. There are no hormones and no plant estrogens in any softr days product.

Can I take them with medication or HRT?

Ask your doctor or pharmacist first, especially if you take antidepressants, blood thinners or antibiotics.

Is it a treatment for infections?

No. softr days makes dietary supplements that support your everyday intimate and urinary health. If you have symptoms of an infection, unusual discharge, pain or a strong odor that does not go away, please see your doctor.

What does the guarantee cover?

Your first order. Tell us within 90 days of it and we refund it in full.

Can I cancel my subscription?

Yes, anytime, online from your account. You can also skip a delivery or change the date.

*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Studies cited were conducted on the individual ingredients, not on the softr days formulas. Consult your healthcare provider before use if you are pregnant, nursing, taking medication or have a medical condition.